Tuesday, February 11, 2020

Facebook Purge

How many times have you been scrolling through your fb feed and had this roller coaster of emotions. If you are anything like I was you wake up and you start scrolling. So the first thing you do is you laugh cuz someone posted something really funny. Then you get sad because maybe your friends grandma died. Then you get angry because of some bad news you just read or even worse you get angry because someone posted some stupid quote and you think it's about you! Do you realize how many emotions you have just experienced in the first fifteen minutes of your day? Yo! you are on the verge of being a Schizophrenic.

Here are some common lies we tell ourselves :

  • I just go on there to post then leave.
  • I am just on there for my business.
  • It's the only way I can keep track of my family. 
Real reasons we are on fb:
  • Procrastination 
  • loneliness 
  • Need to be a people pleaser 
  • You are just a creeper 
  • Need to have others approval 
  • Fear of missing out (aka FOMO)
3 steps I have taken to have a healthy relationship with fb: 

  • I deleted the app from my phone (yes I have to actually log onto it from my laptop or manually do it on your phone which is annoying and takes too much time) 
  • If I do log on I try to not to make it the first thing I do when I wake up or the last thing I do before I go to bed. That way if something annoys me, I don't take it out on people during the day or go to sleep mad. 
  • Yes I have businesses but there is an app just for this purpose so use it people it's called pages manager or if you can afford it hire someone to manage your pages.  (you can also have messenger without actually having the fb app on your phone)
So check yourself according to this article  you should spend about 30 minutes a day on social media and if you go into your settings you can actually track how long you spend on fb. Don't get me wrong I love social media, I love facebook but it is just not healthy to spend so much time on there. I am not going to write a whole blog on why...there are plenty already out there. I just know I had some mixed emotions and didn't realize how much social media actually contributed to my mental health. So as weird as it is going to be I am going to share this on Facebook and hopefully maybe help someone else who has also been experiencing the same. I mean clearly I had a problem, I have this blog I create a gazillion years ago and well...I never used it cuz I was too busy updating my facebook status. 

Thursday, September 25, 2014

Splash 'n' Paint

Come to the beautiful Island of Ambergris Caye Belize and join a Splash 'n' Paint Party. You don't have to be a professional Artist. Whether you’ve painted a little in the past or have never touched a paint brush in your life.    This experience is easy and will be fun for all ages.   We  provide you with you with Canvas, Paints, Brushes and Step-by-Step instructions.  This is a paint party not a college Art lesson so don’t fret if you can’t draw a stick figure.   Stencils make it easy for those paintings that are intimidating. WE are here to have fun, cocktail in one hand brush in the other. In two hours you will have your very own souvenir of Belize, made in Belize by you! If you are new to the Island this is a fun place to meet new friends.  Everybody can Paint you just gotta Belize it!  To join a paint party or book a private one stop by Belizean Melody Art Gallery or email belizeanmelody@gmail.com.  Splash 'n' Paint parties travel and can come to you at your hotel or local establishment. Paint Parties are fun for weddings, girls night out, families, staff parties, birthday or just for fun!! Book your paint Party or just swing by the Gallery and join weekly paint parties at local establishments
 Here are some lushes with brushes at Crazy Canucks!


 Crystal and Jay with their beautiful Art work 
 A private paint Party at Black Orchid. Drinks and Appetizers were amazing!
Painting and creating makes everybody happy come join us!

Monday, August 25, 2008